Talking to many women like her, it’s intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren’t ready.
American journalist Kate Bolick wrote recently in The Atlantic about breaking off her three-year relationship with a man she described as ”intelligent, good-looking, loyal and kind”. I see a poetic yet depressing symmetry in this: the women who rejected the introverted, budding alpha in their 20s now seek them in their 30s—but can’t have them because they’re dating younger, more attractive versions of themselves. Courtship really is a petri dish of evolutionary psychology.
Because middle-aged booze bloat isn’t going to get you a man!
Maybe you're busy fighting societal norms or embracing your inner Betty Draper, but no matter what your status, the truth remains: Your friends are settling down. At the very least, you're tired of being the only friend without a Plus One to drag to all the parties. "The Universe" doesn't know that you're ready to meet "the one." You have to go find him yourself, and that (usually) takes work. Dating, getting to know someone and (especially) deciding if you want that person to be your life partner are all steps in a delicate process that requires patience and restraint. The key is to hold onto the important things — kindness, affection, ambition or whatever it is that sustains you — and let go of the more frivolous stuff.
Right will just stroll on in with a bottle of bubbly and a fistful of roses.
Turns out, there’s lots to love about women of a certain age.
Men in their 20s date women over 30 because:“They understand better how to interact in a relationship.”Men in their 40s add:“Women over 30 have stopped putting metal through their lips and tongues which makes it easier to kiss them.
The number of women marrying in their late 30s and 40s has doubled in the last decade. *Adds ‘getting pregnant’ to list of things to do next week* Because it’s *that* easy. Whilst I recognise that Ugg wearing is not always conducive to hot man dating, there comes a time in every woman’s life when certain things take priority. Because there is nothing a single girl in her 30s loves more than entertaining ‘proper grown-ups’ at dinner parties.
However, given some people’s reaction when you tell them you’re single post 35, you’d think we were still living in a time where the average life expectancy was 37 and a half. Excellent, why would I want to bring the cute guy I’ve been newly dating to your wedding when I could spend the evening being perved at by a 62-year-old man with personal hygiene issues. From someone who married before online dating was invented.
I look forward to a time when such games will no longer be necessary. It’s about evolution, how it affects culture, and how that can be quite interesting and cruel.
Unfortunately this requires some significant changes to humanity, namely: [ Jan 16, 2017 — I’ve received a lot of hits from threads around the internet that see this as some sort of celebration against women.
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Women, on the other hand, prefer guys closer to their own age.